My Tools Story

My last name is Wells, but for a considerable period of my life, I was far from well. I grew up as a “normal kid” with caring parents in Orange County, CA. I excelled in school and was even the captain of my varsity cheerleading squad. I transferred to UCLA as a sophomore, earned a bachelor's degree in English, and envisioned a future filled with reaping life’s rewards.

However, reality took a different turn. In the spring of 1995, I packed my bags and moved to New York City with big dreams of artistic success and standing ovations from stranger-filled audiences. Instead, I found rejection after rejection in auditions, and the approval I craved turned out to be a daily torment. I felt trapped, questioning what was wrong with me and struggling to just be myself—whatever that meant.

I took refuge in toxic substances and relationships to fill the void where I wanted the applause to be. I spent decades adrift without any clear direction. But something inside knew not to give up. I searched in metaphysical books, yoga studios, and many a therapist’s office for the answers as to why I felt so uncomfortable in my skin.

Enter The Tools written by Phil Stutz and Barry Michaels. I stumbled upon its pages in 2013 and clarity dawned in a revelation akin to Oprah's celebrated aha moment. By the seventh page, I knew I had discovered my beacon. The Tools provided visualizations that engaged my harried mind, offering a powerful alternative to obsessive worrying and pointless comparisons.

During the past decade, I’ve incorporated The Tools into my daily being and it’s been the best time of my life. I now know that I've found my true calling—as a guide, coach, and—yes—cheerleader, for all those who share my struggles. Indeed, we can all truly be well. I look forward to supporting you and your journey!